A couple months ago The Simple Dollar wrote Switching Jobs / Switching Careers about what to do do if you love your job but hate your career or vice versa. His article was really meant for people who hate their job or career. But the mention of "loving" your job or career made me consider the notion of loving your job.
I do not love my job. I like my job. And thats just fine with me.
You do not have to love your job for it to be a good or even a great job. Its fabulous if you do love your job. However loving your job shouldn't be the expectation. If you go about life with the thinking that you ought to love your job or that loving your job is the measurement of a successful career then I think you're setting the bar too high and setting yourself up for a failure.
Loving your job is not the norm at all. In fact lately most Americans aren't even satisfied with their jobs. In a poll earlier this year only 45% of Americans reported that they were satisfied with their jobs. This may not be news to you that most people aren't happy with their jobs. But if you listen to much to the career advice gurus you might get the idea that everyone should be passionate and love their careers or jobs and that this is somehow typical, but it just isn't. I'm not saying we should all be satisfied with jobs we hate or that disliking our jobs is good enough. But the point here is that its not normal to love your job and in fact if you merely like your job you're doing better than most.
Not loving your job isn't a mandate for change. On the other hand if you hate your job or simply dislike it then that may warrant some change. Hating your job isn't automatically a reason to quit the job or change careers. You have to examine exactly why you hate or dislike your job. What do you dislike about your job exactly? Why are you unhappy. Sometimes you can fix things by some changes in how you do your work or interact with your coworkers.
You should also seriously think about your own state of mind and consider if the reason you are unhappy at work might be due to other things going on in your life more than the job itself. If you're getting 5 hours of sleep, dealing with constant headaches, have a spouse that you fight with regularly and are behind on your car payment then its unlikely you'll be in a wonderful mood from 8am to 5pm. Maybe its not the job as much as your poor mood. OK before you get mad ... I'm not trying to blame the victim here, but merely suggesting that you step back and look at what might be influencing your moods. Are all your coworkers equally unhappy with the job as well or do they all seem satisfied?
Personally I think that liking or enjoying your job is a realistic goal. Loving your job would be pretty nice, but I'd consider that a 'stretch goal' rather than a realistic expectation. Plan to like your job and consider anything above that as a bonus.